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About We Listen, We Don't Judge is a TikTok trend and internet challenge that grew out of South Africa in 2024. The challenge involves a group or pair of people taking turns to reveal their secrets, with everyone repeating the phrase, "We listen, we don't judge," after each confession. The trend gained traction in the United States in November 2024. Origin One of the earliest "We Listen, We Don't Judge" videos was posted to Instagram[1] by user @thestanlley1 on April 21st, 2024. The humorous sketch shows a group of friends taking turns to reveal their secrets, all while reluctantly repeating the phrase, "We listen, we don't judge." The post gathered over 9 million views and 900,000 likes in seven months.